My Beloved Charioteer Essay

Shashi Deshpande is an award-winning Indian novelist. Shashi Deshpande makes gender central to her writing. In her story MY BELOVED CHARIOTEER she tries to the describe the kinships of grandmother, mother and daughter at various stages of feeling. It is a story of a mother daughter relationship as well as a womens role as a wife. Mother and daughter relationship is like sisters or sparring partners. They care for each other. My Beloved Charioteer depicts the life of mothers spirit and behavior non as charity but as a normal human being encompassing of negatives as well as positives, full of emotions as well as frustrations and non a perfect being. My Beloved Charioteer by Shashi Deshpande is based on the three generations, three women i.e. grandmother, mother and daughter and three different mindsets dungeon together. Grandmother being the oldest one and the one who takes care of each and everyone in the bear.Mother named Arti the daughter of grandmother a depressed lady as for whom she cared and loved have died. She loved two persons that is her father and her husband has two(prenominal) died. She is now the or so irritated person in the house and she spends her most of the time smoking and looking at the walls of her room. She doesnt babble to everyone incomplete to her daughter Priti and nor to her mother. She evens scolds priti for no reason .She is so much entangled with the gone that her present is neglected. The daughter named priti the youngest and the most energetic character. Her father and grandfather had both died. Her mother doesnt talk to her. Her caretaker and her best friend in the house is her grandmother (Ajji). When Priti is gone silence settles in the house. The relation mingled with the Arti and Priti is not too good in the story.Arti is depressed, sad, unhappy, and is in pang. She doesnt do any tame, which a mother should do for her daughter and for her aged mother. She doesnt talk to Priti play with her however she sco lds Priti at times to show her anger, issuerage and displeasure. Because of her nature grandmother Ajji have to take care of Priti, she acts like her mother. She wakes her, she dresses her for school, make dampfast for her. It is shocking to seethat at this age also Ajji does all the work and she even doesnt complain. The relationship of Arti and Priti is not good whereas the relationship between Ajji and Priti is good. Ajji once insist Arti to go out of house like lay whereas in reply she says that seeing other people happy she cute to kill and bury their happiness. This shows one of the natures of depressed lady.Ironically Ajjis husbands room offers her the opportunity to find her voice, rebel against her daughter and break the silence that threatens to destroy her home and her granddaughter. The photo frame that was broken accidently by Arti gave a chance, which helped Ajji to talk to her and to explain her that what gone is gone. Ajji is also holding the pain of her husband but on the other hand she is managing and not caterpillar tread from her problems and fears. Priti has a daughter and she need to take care of her. Ajji also says that she does not want to ever see the photograph again as it is no point of seeing things which gives pain and discomfort. Arti needs to be happy at which she got rather than things, which she doesnt have. Hence through this story Shashi Deshpande elegantly brings out the mother/daughter relationship on different stages and aspects of life.